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I'm American, But Brazil Is Still the Place I Call Home PDF Print E-mail
Written by Elizabeth Barrett   
Monday, 17 July 2006 11:18

Escola Graduada in São Paulo, BrazilThe summer of 1970 was not an easy one for me. I would be leaving my country to live in a foreign one. I would be leaving all my friends, the school I had attended since kindergarten (1963), and even my dog behind.

My biggest worry was the money thing. How would I make change? How would I know how much money to give when I bought something?

I had spent the first thirteen years of my life living in São Paulo, Brasil, and attending Escola Graduada de São Paulo. My father worked for Sylvania, and had been transferred there when I was less than a year old. I had never seen snow, I knew cruzeiros, not dollars, and thongs (the sandals, not the underwear) were called zorries.

Now I was moving to a place called Indiana, which to me was a foreign country. It's not that I had never been to the United States. We went there every two years on home leave, sailing there aboard the Del Sud or Del Norte, part of the Delta Ship Line.

Depending on whether you had crossed the equator or not, you were either a Shellback or Pollywog. My father was King Neptune one year aboard ship. There was food all day long, beautiful flying fish gliding in the air beside us as we cruised along, and a great pool on board.

But the United States wasn't home to me. It was someplace we visited to buy Stride-Rite shoes and good clothes, along with Barbie, her best friend Midge, and Super Balls.

I suppose that's why I don't always jump on the "I love the U.S.A." bandwagon as quickly as everyone else. Or get worked up about immigration like some people do.

One of the things I miss most about Brazil, is Farinha Láctea. I will never forget the smell and taste of that cereal! I can even eat it "raw." I was elated when I found it in my mother's grocery store in Danbury, CT, which has a large Brazilian population. I can almost pretend I am back home as I window shop up and down Main Street in Danbury.

Unfortunately, I had to guess how to make Farinha Láctea, since the whole can is in Portuguese, and I don't remember a word of it, even though I spoke it fluently at three, and had to translate between my mother and the maids.

"Maids? You had maids?" My American friends were speechless. "You must have been rich," they said. I couldn't make them understand that everyone had maids, it was no big deal. We also had a cook. I remember sitting at the kitchen table with them, eating the Portuguese rolls that were delivered to us each day (and no bread in the U.S.A. has tasted as good since), and having Coca-Cola in a cup, pretending it was coffee.

We did not live in a jungle as many of my new American classmates thought. We actually saw movies, went to Holiday on Ice and to the circus in Brazil. We went to pizzerias where waiters wore dinner jackets, and you ate pizza with a knife and fork, something I still do today.

We went to Guarujá, a beautiful beach, and I had friends from places like Texas, Michigan, South Africa, Holland, England, and Denmark. And I did see President Dwight Eisenhower in a parade, although I don't remember him.

My father and mother had beautiful dinner parties, we had a pool in the backyard, and I have numerous scars on my knees from falling while riding my bike and roller skating up and down Avenida Baía.

The luxury car in São Paulo was a Ford Galaxy. We didn't have one of them. We had three cars during our time in Brazil: a Willy's Jeep; a Simca; and a Volkswagen Bug, with plaid seats.

After thirty-six years in the U.S.A. I know how to make change, I have seen snow, and yes I learned to love the U.S.A., but something in me yearns for my happy childhood in Brazil. And a good churrascaria!

Elizabeth Barrett lives in Southington, Connecticut, USA. She is an aspiring writer and welcomes comments at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .



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Very good story !
written by ch:c, July 17, 2006
But why dont you go back in Brazil for a year or two and then write again an article that says...... : I was Brazilian, emigrated to the USA, came back, and the American way and quality of life, and someting in you yearns that America is better than Brazil !

Afterall millions of Brazilians dream of doing what you did....but rarely the opposite.
There should be a reason !
A VERY GOOD REASON......in my opinion !
There is not an estimated motre than 1 million Americans illegally in Brazil. Why should they....anyway !
...
written by Eddie, July 18, 2006
Beautiful story,enjoy your "saudades" from childhood in Brazil.I have a friend born in Sao Paulo from American parents that left Brazil at the age of 7 and just returned there for brief periods and remembers and tells me that Moema neighborhood in SaoPaulo was full of houses with apple and Ipe trees where many American and German families had their 4th of july barbecues-----I saw the pictures,difficult to believe.Every 4th of July here he has a great party with a lot of Brazilian foods,songs and friends.What a world .....an by the way farinha lactea is good in many ways...with sweetened milk like eagle brand is not so good but with "leite moca" much better.
If you have so much nostalgy......
written by ch:c, July 18, 2006
...why dont you go back to the country you care so much for !
Afterall well over a million of Brazilian, already illegally in the USA, are willing to take your place and job because they dont agree with you : they say that Brazil is a decayed country and they have only one dream : start all over again but elsewhere !


Ohhhh by the way....I did not count the millions and millions of Brazilians who think the same but dont recognize it publicly, but have the same dreams : if only they could leave this s**tty country....they would not hesitate !

After so many years of not being "yet" a true American, your savings should suffice for a good living in the country of your heart !

Cheers !
Good story
written by CariocaB, July 19, 2006
Good story, and ignore the negativity of the poster above. Tired of seeing the nasty comments on here, it's really un-necessary and quite immature.

-An American living in Brazil smilies/cool.gif
Another decent piece from a freelancer BUT...
written by Stevie in Vancouver/Floripa, July 19, 2006
Quote from CariocaB:

"...and ignore the negativity of the poster above. Tired of seeing the nasty comments on here, it's really un-necessary and quite immature."

Agreed. And it pisses me off to no end the owners of this otherwise informative, professionally-run website refuse to do anything about it. I, as well as dozens of other Canadian and Brazilian friends of mine, rarely come here anymore because...the owners obviously don't care enough about their e-business and/or their online audience to ban this one simpleton American assleak.

This loser is obviously a *failed sex tourist*. What I mean by *failed* is, he took his fat, ugly loser ass down to Brasil (like his hero Rush Limbaugh did in the DR last week) but found that there's things even a desperate Brasilian sex worker won't do for all the money in world: touch this guy, or guys like him.

On his return to s**tstain, Alabama, in his impotent rage (pun intended), he immediately got on the web and Googled "Brazzil" (with an extra "z", 'cuz he can't spell) and found this website. The sad, universally repulsive little man has been here ever since, slagging off Brasil 'cuz he couldn't get laid (when in reality he can't get laid anywhere on the planet. Brasil was just the last place he tried...).

He's an obsessed wanker (literally), and I'm getting sick of it. He's one of two or three here, and they ruin this website. Again, the owners just don't care.



Signed: A Canuck living in - and loving - Brasil.



e2a: TO THE OWNERS OF THIS WEBSITE: Thanks again for another interesting, light, completely innocuos yet informative piece from one of your freelancers. See you again in six months. MAYBE. If you decide to do something about these one or two a*****es ruining your website. What a waste...
...
written by El Güero, July 20, 2006
I have to agree with the above comment. Strong, healthy debate, yes. But this site needs to be weeded of some of the ugly, vicious and racist commenters who ruin almost every post.
My apologies to all mature, adult contributers to this site...
written by Stevie in Vancouver/Floripa, July 20, 2006
I'd like to apologise to all re: my use of rather strong language in my above post. It's not my style to get on the web and flame/call people "obsessed wanker(s)", but in this case there was no other way to get my point across. As El Güero stated above, I too enjoy healthy debate but cannot STAND these same one or two people ruining EVERY SINGLE POST with their ugly, racist rubbish.

The freelancer writers who contribute to this site can write about something completely innocuous like a flower show in Rio, and this guy will STILL show up and slag off Brasil and Brasilians. It's disgusting and I shant be putting up with it anymore unless the owners do something about it.

Again, my apologies to all for my use of strong language.
Completely in agreement of the above post.
written by AigoVigo, July 20, 2006
I agree. When someone writes that the wind blows so nicely in Guaruja, thus so called "Guest" will show up, and start talking about child prostition, and crime in Brazil.
Others: Just read what mess he has created in the article related with prostitution on this same very site.

People, constructive criticism is very well welcome. And even references to negative subjects which are facts, dont pose as rubissh. But yes, somehow this one or 2 guys, they just seem to like to badmouth Brazil and Brazilians. And that does not seem to be amusing.
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written by guest, July 21, 2006
quote:

"I agree. When someone writes that the wind blows so nicely in Guaruja, thus so called "Guest" will show up, and start talking about child prostition, and crime in Brazil.
Others: Just read what mess he has created in the article related with prostitution on this same very site."

First of all, let me say that I haven't made a post on this site in several days, and this will also be my last, I've lost interest in this site, as well as those when a topic is discussed, one shows facts and figures and not just an "opinion", and those facts aren't exactly flattering, then you have people like AigoVigo who acts appalled that one would dare. It's kind of like a couple years ago when Jack Snow the then head of the IMF made a statement before yet another disbursement of hundreds of millions of dollars to brazil that more than likely the majority would end up in Swiss bank accounts, and many brazilian politicians were appalled, "how dare he" they said, yet never a truer statement made.

If you look at the above quote from mr. aigovigo, you see what I'm talking about, a thread about prostitution and I stated reports about prostitution, both adult and child prostitution that exists in brazil.....afterall, the TOPIC is about prostitution in brazil!!! What should I have posted about? I guess the wind blowing in Guaruja ever so nicely in the tranquil, tropical paradise called brazil. I have no time for these people that can't discuss facts in a mature manner and show their prideful ignorance for anything that doesn't portray brazil as some harmonious paradise.

People from all over the world say negative things about my country, and many of them are spot-on, and I AGREE with many of the negative things stated pertaining to it and know that CHANGE is needed....and it will NEVER happen if we pretend the problems don't exist and everything is just hunky-dory, yet this is the very mindset of so many brazilians.

And I urge all readers to read the thread about prostitution, I stated my preoccupation about my 6 year old daughter being in sao paulo last week, afterall, they were revolting again, burned more than 80 buses, and killed approximately 10-12 people. And our friend above states that my 6 year old is there prostituting herself and my wife sleeps with other men.....that goes to show the attitude of some, once again, I don't have time for these types. Then our friend above starts posting as other posters, even writing "guest" as his name and posting things as if he were me. Once again, I don't have the time.

I hope brazil changes one day, for the better of the people, and that means that some that profit from the current system will have to lose, who knows, maybe AigoVigo is one of those, that has an interest in the "status quo". If you don't recognize the faults of your country, AND complain, AND take action to attempt to make posititive changes, for the people, you have NO right to complain later when things get even worse.
For the post above.
written by AigoVigo, July 21, 2006
Thanks but NO thanks. Bye.
Finally your guilt has made you cry again.

One has to understand that by just saying negative things about any country, which may be facts, you are not doing anything new, and you are not helping. You may give references, and bad situations do exist everywhere. But that should not make you just blast bad mouth on something good that is written in positive spirit. Not all is bad in Brasil.
And not all is good in your country. So, help by moving over, and talking beyond just giving references to negative thing. Move and talk somthing creative. Just by presenting stats, *wrong stats* you are not doing any creative constructive criticism nor discussion. Its your decision that you are leaving. Dont make it sound that the site is going to loose something great by your going.
The fact is you lost on the discussion, you brought in topics related with your daughter, wife, and got further more frustrated. So its you who is to blame for. And once you have realised that your comments did not have any strong facts to support, you ended up providing wrong statistics. Finaly you are now going to hide your face. You are not leaving. You are running away. But you better go.
i was curious about...
written by Sam B., July 21, 2006
the comments and sources that were posted about child prostitution, since it is very difficult to believe that the United States is the #2 perpetrator in the world of this crime. I found out from the report posted by Aigo that firstly it is a report from the U.N. that is more than 12 years old, but mostly, after reading the entire report from the U.N. that these "child prostitutes" that exist in the U.S. more than 90% of them are imported from other countries. Asia being the biggest perpetrator and Latin America coming in second. And after reading reports as recent as 2005 by the U.N. that number has been significantly reduced after the Clinton Admin. passed stringent laws pertaining to this subject and numerous asian gangs, as well as latin gangs have been put in prison.

The report provided by Aigo isn't a gov't. agency or even an ngo, its english.people.com, it's an article they wrote.

I then found reports from both the U.N. and the U.S. gov't. claiming brazil to have 500,000 child prostitutes, 5X more than the number stated on english.people.com

http://www.state.gov/g/drl/rls/hrrpt/2004/41751.htm


One source, an ngo, puts the figure at 500,000 to 2 million...


http://www.libertadlatina.org/LA_Brazils_Child_Prostitution_Crisis.htm


So after my research it appears that the above poster is the one not showing actual facts, but found a news report or a site that stated a statistic he liked so he threw it.

Do the research yourself, it's not hard to do.
For the poster above.
written by AigoVigo, July 21, 2006
Can you just copy and paste my comments as the were typed? Actualy I have not presented any facts and refered to any reports on this site. I actualy agree that the problem of prostition is grave. And I have written my own original views.
It seems "Guest" is writing as "Sam B"
Once you have decided to leave, you cant even obey your own insticnts.
Trite Garbage . .
written by JT, July 21, 2006
Ignore the idiots who stated that this was a "nice piece" or "beautifully written". This was trite and worthless garbage that added f**k all to any useful debate. Yeah Canadians accusing others of sexual tourism - that's rich. Given how hideously ugly and hairly the Canuck women are there is little doubt what you are doing in Brazil. Piss off you little Canadian bitch!
The REAL problem..
written by Skrull, July 23, 2006
What is wrong with this site? Goddamned americans destroying everything as usual.
Its the root cause.
written by AigoVigo, July 23, 2006
One such American a*****e is "Guest" In disguise "Sam B"
airhead.
written by ed, July 24, 2006
wait a minute...
you spent the first 13 years of your life in Brazil and spoke the language fluently enough to be able to take classes there yet "can't remember a word"?!?! with that kind of mental capacity, it's amazing you can even speak english.
what the......
written by Anwar, August 05, 2006
this guy spent 13 years in Brazil and can't even speak the language.....what a shame.......This guy seriously have mental problem......Idiot.
Unbelieveabel
written by Michael, August 11, 2006
Your comments on Brazil is shocking. I can tell you that as seeing with own eyes while in Sao Paulo, a lady being chased and robbered in the middle of the day and no one did anything to help her, I attempted but was stopped by people to stay out of it. What a country the crime there is beyond control and all I h ave to say is "God Bless the USA". I believe Brazil will never get even close to the quality of life we have here. Ciao...
Nurse.
written by Evandro., August 14, 2006
I do not live in USA, and I did refuse to enter,We have pure and perfect real freedom, and we dont need to act as robots, or dollis houses, or get worried about bombs or airplanes crashing in to our builds or parlament, because we do not do any kind of propagand that we are "THE BEST COWNTRY IN THE WORLD", we dont need that, we are not imperialists, and we dont ask to "GOD" Bless only us ! Because if you believe in any god, you shold Bless the hole world, not only yours.America as we all now is the most agressor in the world, contribuiting for polution, Greedness and interventions in other cowntrys for your one beneft, as petrol and power.So if you are BRAZILLIAN and have any sense, suck all the money you can, because they did rober from us and other nations, as Europe did and allways will do, so, dont fell any guelt, come back to BRASIL, and enjoy the real quality of life that only us wold now, their eyes are blind with that false sense of power, come back and build your future and help us build our one future, we dont need to show off, that is sign of incompetence and no knowledge as we can see in the majority of this forum.And everyone have what they deserve, cause and efect.
Another thing, we do not treat our illegal imigrants as prisioners, thats is a real violation of human rights, as well the stupid discrimination.
Look to your one ASS and informe your self better. :-\
Sad...sad..
written by Sad!, September 28, 2006
what else to say!? I'm Brazilian, first time visiting this site, read the article, found it touching...However...the long list of posts after it...something to lament deeply. WHo to blame for them? No a person, but indivudual circumstances, individual experiences...and that is what shapes the comments posted here. I lived abroad, had been in USA..London...for some time. I still consider myself ignorant on many issues and leraned, above all, not to generalise! This is a rule of thumb! So, whoever, still reads my post now -- if ig gets to be read by anyone -- please, try to consider that individual expereiences -- of any sort -- can at best be shared and this is what the article's author did. Nothing else. Please, please....do not try to turn your opinion in truth. do not try to turn your guessing into certainty....life is not black and white and what we think, or whatever we've expereinced is not the ultimate truth about anything...more so about peoples, culture, values...intangible human being's assets. I was about to send this to friends I have around the world...Not anymore. How could I indicate a site like this one and risk my credibility with my firends, who, by the way, live in US, India, France, UK, Germany......By the way: I liked US, but been there in favourable conditions. It is a nice place to live only if you have a good job. Never get ill there if are too poor to pay for heath care...I'd never live there as illegal immigrant. It is not worth the pain. Back to Brazil, I found it hard to readapt. BUt I did in the end...and with that back and forth of my life, I learned not to be so contundent about my opinions and wonder why so many well-travelled people (at least this is what I am suposing) would post such absurd extremist comments. LIFE IS NOT IN BLACK AND WHITE! It was sad to realise how certain individuals are so narrow-minded in the 21 century!
well..
written by Allie, November 05, 2006
A real good story, but it`s so sad how people can not understand it!

It`s true that are millions of Brazilians living illegally in USA, but first, they are here because they can`t make as much money in Brazil, not because they don`t like Brazil [by the way 99% of brazilians linving in US dreams in going back to Brazil], and second they are not stealing any job, they are doing the job americans don`t want to do!

Yes, Brazil is a dangerous country, but people stills being happier there than in US. People in US are cold, they prefer to live far away from the others, they don`t even know what is a real friend ship. Americans says that Iraq is a dangerous place, because there are a lot of terrorism. what about the americans who get in the schools and kills hundreds of innocent children?
Brazilians are always there to help, they are real friends, they are not terrorists as a lot of americans.

Anyways..
Brazilians.. come to US, work, save your money and go back to your paradise.
Americans.. open your eyes.. that is a world outside US, you should check it!!

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