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lovestick



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Hi. I actually have the opposite question in regards to Mineiros...So obviously one should rarely generalize, but  for this, please be my guest. So what are the attitudes of Brazilian men, specifically Mineiros, towards casual sex and the women that engage in it with them? Cuz, you guesssed it...I'm currently involved in God knows what you'd call it with a Mineiro. He's very flirty, very sexy and downright irresistable.  He also has a live in girlfriend also from Minas and while this certainly doesn't make it anymore right,  I'm also quite spoken for as I happen to be married. Sooo the situation is absolutely crazy but I wonder how commen? Is this normal behavior in Brazil? Cuz it sure the hell ain't in my part of the world. Thanks and any input will actually be quite helpful.

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Paulista



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Probably he will not want to marry you.

Anyway, he wouldn't be able to. Bigamy is a crime in Brazil and in most of the US too.

How common is for a Mineiro (or mineira) to betray? Give them the occasion and many, many of them will fall for it. Aren't you falling to? Good gracious fall and good lick.

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lovestick



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well deliciously falling for it I am.  He's quite a funny guy. (funny odd though he's also funny haha)  Here he's fooling around with an incrediably strong willed and independant woman and yet he tells his girlfriend what she can and can't wear and where she will work. Yet he really does seem to have her best interests at heart...while screwing another woman...it's so weird!!!! I know interpersonal relationships the world over are complicated and covered in shades of gray but is this just an individual thing or again is this more commen among Brasilian men? It just seems like such a strange contradiction...and yet sex is sex and passion is passion no? I'm just curious about the cultural baggage that sits beneath it all...

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Guest



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Instead of lovesick, your name should be lustsick. This kind of behavior is possible and happens regularly in all countries of the world.  Your pleasure will have consequences and what comes around goes around.  You have betrayed your husband.  Someday, someone will betray you for the purposes of their pleasure.  You are both dishonest and unloving to those who have put trust in you.  If that does not come back to you directly through eachother, someone else will show dishonesty and unlovingness towards you.  I do not need to go on...I think you get the picture.  And one last thing.  Brazilian men are like men everywhere.  They can enjoy sex with someone tremendously and really feel little for them in anyother way.  But perhaps the men of Brazil, better than the men of other cultures, know how to seduce with charm and words that are all part of the fun of the game.  When the game ceases to be entertaining, you will have no lover and a betrayed broken marriage to live with.  Then you can decide if it was worth it.

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Joe Gahona


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Quote: from Guest on 5:41 pm on Jan. 5, 2003
Someday, someone will betray you for the purposes of their pleasure.


Erm... How do you know?

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castanha


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Which part of the world do you live in?

My problem is the complete opposite!! I told my mineiro a joke - as reações de alguns machões brasileiros, quando flagram a mulher com o "Outro" na cama.... o mineiro mata o homem e continua casado com a mulher, exatamente como manda a TFM, Tradicional Família Mineira (the reactions of brazilian males when they find their wives in bed with the other man; the mineiro kills the other man and remains married to his wife as mandated by the organization 'Mineiro Traditional Family')...well, he wasn't too amused and responded "Não tem traicão em Minas."  He doesn't even like it when I chat casually with other Brazilian guys and my city is full of them!

Flirting is just that- you can't help being attracted certain people but don't carry it too far. You said it yourself- you're married and he's also spoken for.

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Guest



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Flirting and casual sex are two very different things, querida. IMO, casual sex with ANYONE nowadays is dangerous and stupid.

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You are such a liar...just remember, secrets and lies destroy trust, which cannot be replaced once gone.

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Vargas


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Woah, looks like we have a little speech-maker here. If you read her question, she didn't ask: "Can I please have a moral indictment because my ego is currently too well-off?" She just asked if the behavior was normal. So it is. Whatever. Lose the husband and the minerror and hook up with me and my friends for our trip to Brazil, that's what I say.

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