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Posted by MJ
On Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 13:10:14

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I just want to say Brazilian girls are so hot. The best looking I've seen in my young life.

It is normal for older men to date younger woman in Brazil? I know of this guy(Owner of Brazilian Bar) that is publicly dating his bartender. He is almost 50 years old and she is 21. It makes me sad because I want to get with her, but her English is very limited which sucks!
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Posted by braslvr
On Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 16:20:32

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It is VERY common for Brazilian women to date and marry MUCH older men, at least in the Nordeste. I have many women friends there, and they ALL tell me this is normal, and seem surprised that I would even question it. I believe it has a lot to do with financial security, but it also seems an older man is some kind of status symbol. I see most often mid 20s women with mid 40s guys.
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Posted by Brazil
On Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 20:28:13

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Yeah it's crazy. Men love Brazilian women, which drives Brazilian men mad as hell!
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Posted by MJ
On Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 22:57:40

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Most Brazilian men seem very confident to me. I hang-out in a Brazilian town and I never got a dirty look or shit from a Brazilian man for trying to pick up a Brazilian girl. YET! I heard Brazilian guys are playboys anyway. I know that Puerto Ricans will try to kill you if you look at there girl. But PR's are not be compared there in a class of there own.:)
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Posted by egads
On Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 05:42:28

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just be careful in small towns. I don't know if it's still true, but it used to be that the local teenage boys used to tried to protect "their" girls from out of towners - with violence or at least threats of it...


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Posted by thaïs
On Saturday, August 03, 2002 at 18:17:11

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as a brazilian girl( from rio de janeiro), i'd say we prefer older men because of their maturity. young guys, at least here, act like little boys n all. besides that, women r really more mature than men, so for the relationship 2 b stable, women prefer older men. i also do:) anyway, i think the guys outta brazil r more mature than those here..
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Posted by Brasilian Guy
On Monday, August 05, 2002 at 21:16:05

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Hey guys, take it easy in small towns in Brasil.
The boys there do really try to protect the girl, in grand part, for in these cities they know each other since child, so i´ts more like a protective brother and sister behavior.
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Posted by Don
On Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 02:36:25

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you said a mouthful... I have the same problem. Brazilian women are the best, and the older man thing is true too.. I am 23... and obviously I can't date a 9 year old Brazilian girl, so what am I to do? Wait until I am 40, so I can date a girl my current age?? Man, you can sure see God's sense of humor in the little things in life.
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Posted by John Doe_BR
On Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 04:57:18

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This reply is for thais.
I think you just haven't been looking for men at your age at the right places... Give us a chance, I guarantee we'll make it worth while!
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Posted by John Doe_BR
On Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 04:57:30

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This reply is for thais.
I think you just haven't been looking for men at your age at the right places... Give us a chance, I guarantee we'll make it worth while!
Watch out for the chicas!
Posted by The Brazilian Gringa
On Friday, August 09, 2002 at 03:23:07

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My boyfriend always asks me how come there are so many nice, good looking and young Brazilian girls with such dog ugly or old men. There is a simple answer women there do not see their own value and still a woman’s success in Brazil is not measured by looking at her career, her academic performance or her self-acquired wealth. A woman’s success in Brazil is seen by how “pretty”, how young she is especially by the man she’s got. A woman with no man in Brazil is a failure. This is why divorced women in Brazil become desperate and will throw themselves at anybody and do the nastiest of things. And this is very unfair for the divorced women who are not like that but seen as such there. In the North of Brazil is even worse as it is more backward so women will do anything to get a man. This is why I say to Gringos, watch out for Brazilian women they give you everything but they also expect everything. Women in Brazil age very quickly also (in the culture), it is not unusual to see a man in his mid forties date an 18 year old girl (I can just about imagine this geezer’s mental age), actually it is considered as a sign of “success” for a married man to have one or more concubines, the younger and prettier she is and the more he spends on her, the more manly he is. Because of this, Gringos are gold in Brazil, because most of the time they will genially fall in love with the girl and give her nice things without treating her like some kind of disposable trophy. A gringo is a promise of a better life for a girl in Brazil, especially if she comes from a poor background. Brazilian girls spot them by their “tourist” manners and northern features, this is why Brazilians in general love blond people regardless if they are ugly or old. I always tell my gringo friends who can’t get a date here to go to Brazil because they have a great time and usually don’t want to come back or bring a girl with them, which is a bit dodgy. So I just give guys an advice, go to Brazil have a fantastic time but be careful, unless you are prepared to give everything to the girl and that might well be marriage. Make sure you make things clear from the beginning and if you see that the girl is too possessive back away or she will take over, and for heaven’s sake use a condom or she might purposely get pregnant. I would also advice (unless you are desperate or looking for a wife) to go to the modern cities as the mentalities are changing. It is not uncommon for Brazilian girls to ignore the fact that you are married and become quite aggressive in the dating process, you might even hear “I will kill myself if you leave me”. The game changes in Brazil, is the women who play the cards, they will be the ones that court you, seduce you so do not get carried away, specially the “loiros” poor things heheheheeh…


this too will change for the worse
Posted by an observer
On Friday, August 09, 2002 at 06:48:25

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Historically, women pursue men older than themselves because an older man is more likely to have made the investment in himself that allows him to financially support a family. Historically, when a man looks for a wife he is looking for someone who can have and care for children (that generally means a woman who is younger than himself).

This was true before the population control nazis (within the UN) made sure that everyone learned in school that the most wasted life is a life dedicated to caring for and forming the mind of the next generation. The intentions of the UN were/are good, however they seem to miss the point that the greatest asset to every person is other people (specifically, people taught to be disciplined, contributors to society, and who have respect for other people and the world within which we live), and that people create wealth.

This phenomenon of European and American men seeking Brazilian wives will probably last about another 15 years.

In Europe and North America, there are many more older men than there are younger women. The opposite is currently true in Brazil.

Within 15 years, the inversion of the population pyramid, a phenomenon which has afflicted Japan and Europe for several years (as zero population growth was pushed by the UN, first on Italy and Japan immediately after WWII, and then on the rest of the world, and is now afflicting the USA) will be in full force within Brazil.

By that time the whole world will be in a full scale recession from which there will be no escape without the creation of more people (Witness Japan’s recession for the past 12 years, which is primarily a result of its inverted population pyramid).


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Posted by thaïs
On Monday, August 12, 2002 at 10:17:48

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ok, joe, i'm not saying all the young guys r not mature, i know some amazing guys who r young, ok, but i still think the older 1s r better.. its not a rule, but if i get to b in love w/ a young guy, about my age or whatever, i wont c any problem in that..

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